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New Year, Happy You: Beating the January Blues

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The holiday season is magical, but let’s be honest—it’s also exhausting. By the time January rolls around, we often feel drained, sluggish, and maybe a little blue. January 24 is even considered the most depressing day of the year, highlighting the struggle people face during this time. I’ve been there, and as a self-care advocate I know how important it is to care for ourselves during this transition into the new year.

So, how do we fight the January blues, and turn January into a month for daydreamers? By showing ourselves the love we so freely give to others. Let me share some of my favorite self-care rituals and tools that help me refresh, reset, and recharge. These are treasures I genuinely adore, and I think you will, too.

Understanding the January Blues

The January blues, often referred to as the winter blues, are those feelings of sadness, low energy, and lethargy that many of us experience as the new year begins. After the excitement and joy of the holiday season, it’s not uncommon to feel a bit empty and unmotivated. This phenomenon isn’t a formal diagnosis but rather a mild form of depression that can leave us feeling down. Symptoms might include sadness, irritability, anxiety, tiredness, and changes in sleep and appetite. It’s important to recognize these feelings and understand that they are a normal response to the post-holiday season.

Causes of the Winter Blues

Several factors contribute to the winter blues, including the lack of natural light, cold weather, and the aftermath of the holiday season. During the winter months, reduced sunlight can disrupt our body’s internal clock, leading to feelings of fatigue and lethargy. The holiday season, while joyous, can also be a time of increased stress and anxiety, which can exacerbate feelings of sadness and low mood. Unmet expectations and conflicts during family gatherings can further contribute to these feelings. Understanding these causes can help us address and manage the winter blues more effectively.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and Seasonal Depression

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a more severe form of winter depression that typically occurs from December to February. Unlike the winter blues, SAD is a type of depression caused by the lack of sunlight, which affects the body’s production of serotonin and melatonin. This can lead to feelings of sadness, lethargy, and fatigue. Symptoms of SAD can include irritability, changes in sleep patterns, social withdrawal, and decreased sex drive. Fortunately, treatments such as light therapy, psychotherapy, and medication can help manage SAD. If you suspect you have SAD, it’s important to seek professional help to find the best treatment for you.

Ease Tension and Find Comfort During Winter Blues

After all the stress of the holidays, my shoulders often feel like I’ve been carrying Santa’s sack of gifts—minus the magical reindeer to help! It’s that lingering tightness we all know too well, especially after a few weeks of decorating, shopping, wrapping, and hosting. The January blues typically resolve after a few weeks, but during that time, I reach for a Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager, a true lifesaver. It’s compact, which means I don’t have to book a spa day or wrestle with an oversized gadget. I just drape it over my shoulders, adjust the settings, and let the soothing kneading motions do their magic. It melts away tension in minutes, and here’s the best part—I can multitask while using it!

I often grab a favorite book or magazine while the massager works its magic, turning a busy day into a moment of peace. Sometimes, I even pair this with my Bearaby Cotton Napper Weighted Blanket, which feels like a cozy, gentle hug. Together, they create the ultimate self-care combo, giving me the physical and emotional comfort I need to reset. It’s like having a personal spa at home, and honestly, I can’t imagine a more comforting duo to help ease into the new year.

Glow from the Inside Out

Self-care means taking care of my skin and spirit. I love using the Novovida Ice Globes for Facials. They feel cool and refreshing. I glide them over my skin, and it wakes me right up. My tired face looks brighter, and I feel more alive. I like using them in the morning or after a long day. They make me feel pampered.

While I use the Ice Globes, I slip on my Parachute Classic Turkish Cotton Robe. It’s soft, cozy, and feels like a hug. I always feel relaxed in it. I wrap myself up and imagine I’m at a spa. I love how something so simple makes such a difference. It’s my way of treating myself, and it works every time.

Breathe in Calm

There’s something about a beautiful fragrance that changes my entire mood. Scents have a way of shifting my energy, lifting my spirits, and creating a sense of calm. I love using the Vitruvi Stone Diffuser to fill my home with the soothing aroma of essential oils. Whether it’s lavender to unwind or citrus to energize, the right scent can transform a room into a sanctuary. Did you know that studies show aromatherapy can reduce stress levels by up to 30%? It’s no wonder essential oils are becoming a go-to for relaxation and well-being.

Move Your Body, Love Your Body

Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. In fact, I’ve found that the best form of self-care is movement. It’s not just about staying fit—it’s about feeling good in my body and clearing my mind. Even a short walk outside can shift my mood and give me a sense of accomplishment. That’s why I’ve made movement a priority in my self-care routine.

I’ve been loving the Bala Bars, Bangles, and Power Ring lately. These aren’t just exercise tools—they’re gorgeous, and they’ve been one of the hottest gifts this holiday season. It’s easy to see why. The sleek, modern design makes them look more like stylish accessories than workout gear. I use the bangles on my wrists during walks or yoga sessions, and the bars are perfect for adding a little strength training to my routine. Tracking my progress with my Apple Watch adds even more motivation.

There’s something so empowering about combining beauty and functionality in my self-care tools. The Bala equipment makes me excited to move, and that’s the key. Movement isn’t about punishment or obligation—it’s a celebration of what my body can do. And that, to me, is the ultimate act of self-love.

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Relax with Intention to Combat Seasonal Affective Disorder

For deeper relaxation, I trust the my Acupressure Mat. At first glance, it might look intimidating, but trust me—it’s worth it! This mat works wonders for relieving tension and improving circulation. When I lie on it, I feel a wave of relaxation as the tiny pressure points work their magic. After just a few minutes, I’m left feeling calm, refreshed, and surprisingly energized. Mental health services are also crucial in providing help for issues like anxiety and depression, offering various forms of therapy and support.

Acupressure mats have become all the rage recently, and for good reason. Studies have shown that using these mats can help reduce muscle tension, improve blood flow, and even lower stress levels. One study found that 98% of participants experienced muscle relaxation, and 81% reported reduced stress after regular use. It’s no wonder acupressure is gaining popularity as a simple, at-home wellness tool.

For me, the Shakti Mat is a unique and effective way to show my body some love. It’s not just about physical relief—it’s also about creating a mindful moment to unwind and care for myself. Whether after a workout or a stressful day, this mat has become an essential part of my self-care routine. If you’re looking for an easy way to relax and recharge, I can’t recommend it enough!

New Year’s Resolutions and Mental Health

New Year’s resolutions can significantly impact our mental health, especially if they are unrealistic or unachievable. Setting high expectations can lead to feelings of guilt and shame when we fall short, exacerbating symptoms of anxiety and depression. It’s crucial to approach resolutions with a gentle and compassionate mindset, focusing on small, achievable goals that promote self-care and well-being. Instead of trying to suppress or judge our emotions, we should prioritize self-care and rest. This approach can help us feel more balanced and less overwhelmed as we navigate the new year.

Creating a Positive Environment

Creating a positive environment can be a powerful way to alleviate symptoms of the winter blues and SAD. Simple changes, like decorating your home with bright colors and lights, can make a big difference. Aromatherapy can also help, with scents like lavender and citrus lifting your spirits. Getting outside to experience natural light, even for a short walk or sitting by a window, can boost your mood. Engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation, such as reading or taking a bath, can further improve your mental well-being. By creating a positive environment, you can promote a sense of calm and reduce the impact of the winter blues.

Choose Self-Care and New Year’s Resolutions This January

These little acts of self-love can make a big difference. Whether it’s a warm robe, a soothing massage, or an empowering message on your tee, these tools remind us to care for the most important person in our lives—ourselves.

January is the perfect time to pause and prioritize YOU. Remember, self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Sunlight or light therapy can boost your Vitamin D levels, improving your mood during the winter season. Let’s love ourselves fiercely and fight the January blues together. The winter season and winter weather can impact mental well-being, but finding comfort in the anticipation of brighter days ahead is important. You deserve it.

What will you try first? Let me know in the comments!

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January 1, 2025

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  1. Maria says:

    Hi Honey, Happy New Year. Enjoyed your story on self care. Here’s mine. Each year for the past 6, I’ve booked a mini staycation @ one of our favorite hotels, which offer an all inclusive package for Newy Year’s Eve & Jan 1st. A welcome rum punch hen you register, afternoon tea, a scrumptious dinner with Champaign while watching the fireworks on the beach, breakfast the next morning and finally, lunch before checking out. I can be as lazy or as active as I want to be, walk swim, or just sit with a good book . I leave refreshed & restored, ready to face the new year.

    • Susan Good says:

      Happy New Year Maria. I am happy for you. Enjoy each day and have a blessed New Year in 2025.

  2. Kathleen Greer says:

    A brisk walk filling my lungs with January
    air, a hot bath and a cup of tea in my
    favorite mug is my go to comfort trio to melt away holiday overload. I enjoy
    light classical to complete my renewing
    reset as I ease into the hope and prom
    ise of the new year.

    • Susan Good says:

      I am now playing light classical music. thank you for the suggestion. Happy New Year. Warmly, Honey

  3. LuAnn Penland says:

    Honey, you are wonderful as always. This is a tough time for me because my health is making it more difficult to take care of my precious disabled husband. Every once in a while I have a PLOM day. That would be Pitiful Lil’ Old Me day. Now I am looking at all those lovely things you posted about trying to make up my mind what I might like to have the most. I will be in touch with you. Love you bunches, LuAnn