I want to share some fashion faux pas for women over 50 — but in a little of a different way. This list of fashion no-nos that I have put together is based on one overarching theme. I think it is the biggest faux pas of all, and therefore worth mentioning before we go any further. And that is, thinking that being fashionable when you’re over 50 is synonymous with looking younger. 

I don’t know when being stylish began to be about looking younger, but I find it completely absurd. There is something beyond exquisite about a woman who is truly in the moment and proud to be where she is in her life.

With that being said, there are still some basic ways that those over 50 can go wrong even when dressing their age.

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5 Fashion Faux Pas to Avoid as a Woman Over 50

1. The Wrong Undergarments

Choosing seamless underwear is really important for all ages but especially after 50. As we age, a lot of the underwear marketed towards us has super noticeable seams which are of no help if we are aiming to draw less attention certain areas of our figures. Properly fitting seamless underwear should hide quietly and let our verve be seen rather than our panty lines.

And speaking of seamless — let’s talk about bras — when you shop for a bra, keep in mind the types of tops you will be wearing with it. Try it on with several tops and really move around in it! Opt for full coverage and above all, make sure you are comfortable. It won’t do to be fidgeting with your strap constantly!

2. Makeup Mistakes

Caking on the foundation. Now I realize that makeup isn’t exactly fashion but it’s all a part of your look so I feel like I’d be neglecting an important point if I didn’t discuss it here. If you’re over 50, and you wish your skin looked like it did several years ago (or decades!), then you may be tempted to cake on the foundation to get rid of fine lines or wrinkles, but this brings me back to my original theme.

Be comfortable in your own skin and take pride in the years you have under your belt, the wisdom resides in the wrinkles! While there is nothing wrong with a little foundation or concealer to even your skin tone, too much can bring the very thing out that you are trying to conceal.

While I think you you forego heavy foundation, one thing I will never go easy on is my signature red lipstick! And, last but not least, you can read some eye makeup tips for women over 50 here.

3. Matching Everything

Contrary to what some may believe, you don’t have to match EVERYTHING to be stylish. With very few exceptions, it’s probably better if you don’t. Your nails don’t need to match your shoes, your shoes don’t need to match your purse, etc. Rather everything should “go together.”

This art of creating outfits that “go together” takes some time to understand. A great way to start doing this is by picking one patterned piece for your outfit and wearing other pieces that pick up the color scheme of the pattern.

4. Focusing on Trends

Fashion comes and goes but style is forever — and that goes for your accessories (even your umbrellas!), your home, the way you dress, your mannerisms -— that is your style, darling. You don’t have to go out and buy clothing that is considered trendy any particular year. What’s more important? Finding clothing that you like, is flattering to you, and makes you feel good.

5. Being afraid

This final faux pas is really so important. Just because you are a certain age doesn’t mean that you have to wear this or have to wear that. After 50, women can fall into a fashion rut and become afraid to try bold, new things.

But, I’m here to tell you that you can and should try out new looks that appeal to you! It’s never too late to be bold and try something new, who knows you just may find a new favorite look!

Avoiding Fashion Faux Pas: My Tips

First of all, never try to copy the young, we have earned our stripes and have no need to copy the young, they should be looking up to us! The only thing we should be considering when it comes to youth is keeping your brain young, which is important!

Secondly, I am a firm believer in being a good picker and knowing the right person to ask for help. So, one of the best pieces of advice I can give you is to find a personal shopper that gets you. She (or he) will push you outside of your comfort zone but in a way that suits you and shows you off to your best advantage.

Thirdly, shop your own closet (here’s how)! Honestly one of the best things I’ve ever done is to organize my closet. The act of purging things in your life that no longer serve you, is truly freeing. An organized closet equals an organized mind. No to mention, walking into a beautifully organized space will make your heart soar. There will be items in there that you have surely forgotten about that you can make new again and that will make you smile!

If you have something to say about fashion over 50, let’s talk! I want so much to hear your opinions and feelings. I also want you to speak up so that women our age remain visible. I think we have a responsibility to share our wisdom, don’t you? Share yours in the comments below.

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