As women, not just over 50, but for most of our lives, we were taught that we needed to look and act a certain way in order to be “lady like.” And depending on the type of woman you are, it may not have ever bothered you not to challenge the status quo.
But darlings, don’t you ever get just plain tired of catering to what society’s definition of beauty is? I know I do!
That’s why I think it’s time we speak up for ourselves and for our beautiful grands, so that they may grow up knowing they’re perfect just the way they are.
We can start by embracing the natural aging process and deciding once and for all that our grey hair makes us no less fabulous than we have always been. Who’s with me?
Going Grey With True Grace
How can you start embracing your natural beauty? One option is to stop coloring your hair! And while I realize this may not be the solution for everyone, just know you’re beautiful whether you color your hair or whether you choose to let those gorgeous silver roots grow out.
Plus, you can always go back to coloring your hair if you grow it out for a while and decide you need another change. We’re strong, visible and vibrant women, and that means we have choices, darlings!
Once your grey locks have grown out a bit, you might consider using some products specifically formulated for grey hair. Because like always, hair needs to be in great condition to look and feel its best. These options are some of the most effective on the market!
L’Oreal Serie Expert Silver Shampoo
The amino acids in the L’Oreal Serie Expert shampoo gently rid hair of buildup and yellow undertones, revealing a more lustrous color and shine! You can grab some here.
BLEACH Silver Shampoo
If you’ve been dying your locks for years, it’s likely that they’re a little damaged. This product works to reduce the damage bleach and other hair dyes can cause – especially when you’re going pure silver. Snag a bottle for yourself here.
Philip Kingsley Pure Silver Conditioner
Formulated specifically for gray hair, Philip Kingsley’s Pure Silver conditioner transforms dull and tired tresses with shine-boosting components that make your hair easier to comb through in the shower and gives the appearance of a brighter colour. Give it a try for yourself, here!
Percy & Reed Wonder Overnight Recovery
If you’re looking to improve the overall texture of your grey hair, you might also consider Percy & Reed Wonder Overnight Recovery cream. As we age and our hormones change, oil production in our in our hair follicles decrease. To improve the texture, use this overnight mask to deeply nourish without weighing down your locks! Interested in giving it a try? You can purchase it here.
What Hair Products Have You Used And Loved?
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Going gray was one of the best decisions I ever made! I think silver is very flattering, and let’s face it, when you dye your hair you’re really not fooling anyone! As you said, just try it! You can always go back.
I love your stories and look forward each day to reading them. Thank you!
-Nora
Totally agree! I am growing out my grey. Decided to stop putting chemicals on my scalp ( skin being our largest organ)…and to regain all time spent in salon ( time is precious)…and to be free from the dictates of society that says we should do and look a certain way…not to mention the money spent!
Natural and free!
At 53, I’ve just started going gray. Most of it is in the underside and the side of my face. I started wearing my hair back, unabashedly unashamed of my graying locks. I like the glittery silver tone I see! 🙂
Yay! My dear friend challenges me to “Be Bold, Claim Old” and stop dyeing my hair 5 years ago. I’m 53 and loving the grey and silver. It’s the texture of my hair that suffers. It’s very course and thick. So. My fab hairdresser friend me onto Monat. All vegan and natural ingredients to cleanse the hair. I switched 7 months ago and will never go back. Wash 2x a week and my hair is perfect! http://Www.monat.com.
Thank you Honey for putting this out there and your commitment to creating beautiful and energized conversations about women aging!!!!!!!
Which Monday products do you use? Thanks!
Thank you ! At age 65 , I am so tired of coloring my hair , I am going cold turkey and will love whatever color I get as the weeks go by . My hair is thin and stringy so hopefully it will grow in a bit stronger. Fingers crossed.
I started getting white hair in my 40’s and never dyed it, though I think about dying it all the time. I’m 51 now, and struggle with society’s definition of beauty for women – which is not white hair. I am working on embracing the true me, and seeing beyond what is believed to be “beautiful.”
My advice is this: If you like your grey hair keep it grey. If you do not like it go for a change. Follow your heart. It knows exactly how you feel. Warmly, Honey
How do you manage getting from coloring your hair and letting the natural color shine? The change doesn’t happen overnight, especially for shoulder length hair. Any suggestions?
I am 46 and have very long hair. I have never colored my hair and I have alot of gray. I need help making it look less dried out and frizzy. I look forward to the day I will have shiny healthy silver hair, if it will ever happen.
I am sure it can happen.Drink lots of water. Go to a professional and ask for help. Where there is a will, there is a way! Warmly, Honey