Passages After 50

Accepting a compliment: Unexpected attention in Mexico

Billy and I spend a lot of time together. After being retired for almost three decades, we have worked out a nice rhythm of time apart and time working on joint projects and having fun. Here in Chapala, Mexico, Billy will sometimes go to a favorite cantina in the afternoons just a couple of blocks […]

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Lessons from an unpredictable birthday weekend

“When we give, we get” was the motto of my birthday this year. The unpredictable event served as a perfect reminder of valuable life lessons. You all know the saying, “Man plans and God laughs.” Without a doubt, the last few days of my life involved give and take, organizing skills, a lot of frazzle […]

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Teaching Grandchildren Gratitude

How to teach your grandchildren gratitude

Dennis Prager, a well-known speaker and author, states that “gratitude is the key to happiness.” Today, I decided to reflect on the meaning of gratitude because of an email I received from a writer, a young woman who lives halfway around the world. After reading some of my stories, we Skyped. The next day I found […]

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Start A Conversation to Start a Friendship

Start A Conversation To Start A Friendship

A new relationship begins when one person is encouraged to enter into ‘conversation.’ Conversation is an art. Though I do not profess to be artful, I realized when I was quite young that I really enjoyed initiating conversations. I knew even then that you need to start a conversation to start a friendship. I also […]

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How women can fight the feeling of invisibility over 50

Fighting the feeling of invisibility over 50

I have been writing my musings for the past year on the topic of women feeling more and more invisible as they age. I told you, dear readers, in one of my stories, the word invisible was brought to my attention during a meeting of a women’s group. Before that day, I never equated a woman […]

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Many women over 50 do. I have found, the key to feeling relevant, important, and VISIBLE lies within you. I hope my free eBook will help you rediscover your purpose, and see the value that I so clearly see in you. 

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