In today’s guest post, Lisa Hall details how she courageously upended her life and moved to India and the expected and unexpected changes that followed. (She previously shared her tips on staying glamorous in a hot climate and she was featured in my “who to follow on Instagram” list) Indulge in the belief that, if Lisa can make incredible changes to her life after 50, then you can take steps to make small ones. Enjoy, darlings!
Overlooking Hamisar Lake, Bhuj
Want to reinvent yourself? If you’ve become bored with your current life, moving to a foreign country is a bold move, but worth considering.
Moved to a New Country After 50: My Journey from Australia to India
My native country is Australia, but for the past 13 years India has been my home. I am not a gypsy at heart, but I realized at the age of 48 my life felt a bit stale. An adventurous attitude was needed if I wanted my life to change. Of course, making such a big move brought moments of fear and doubt—uncertainty about leaving behind the familiar and starting over in a new country. To overcome these feelings, I took time to prepare both mentally and practically, researching what to expect and planning for the challenges ahead. Actively seeking out a different life experience did not come naturally to me, and to this day, the change I made still surprises me.
Leaving Comfort Behind for a New Adventure
A pottery class was a new experience and a way to meet wonderful new people.
It was a bold move to leave behind all the comforts of Sydney and begin an extended stay in the small remote town of Bhuj in Gujarat, India. Before my international move, I had to carefully organize travel plans, researching and preparing for life in a completely different environment. Nevertheless, this is what I embarked upon in 2012, drawn to Bhuj by its vibrant craft culture and talented artisans.
Moving countries brought its own set of challenges, requiring careful planning, adjustment, and the willingness to adapt to a new culture and way of life.
Finding Relevance in Past Experiences
There was no going back once I’d made the decision to navigate the uncertainty of new beginnings in a different country and culture.
But as I found my feet in this new land, I found so many of my past experiences became relevant again. These experiences not only helped me adapt, but also brought unexpected benefits—like access to new social systems and a better quality of life—that have truly reshaped our lives. I believe everything we learn in this life has a reason for something further down the track.
Embracing New Friendships and Personal Growth
The most wonderful aspect of choosing a new country and culture are the people you’ll meet. As you create new friendships relevant to who you are now, you’ll free yourself from situations and people with outdated perceptions of the person you are inside – Escape into a new you of your own creation! Remember, being your own friend during this transition is invaluable, and connecting with expat communities can provide essential support and a sense of belonging.
The Freedom to Reinvent Yourself in a New Culture: 9 Ways Your Life Will Change
Moving abroad to a foreign country is more than just a change of address—it’s an invitation to rediscover yourself in a new culture. Leaving your home country behind opens the door to a world of possibilities, allowing you to break free from old routines and embrace a new chapter of life. Here are nine ways your life will transform as you embark on this journey:
- New Perspectives: Living in a new country introduces you to different customs, traditions, and ways of thinking. This exposure broadens your horizons and helps you become more open-minded and adaptable.
- Personal Growth: The challenges of moving abroad—navigating unfamiliar streets, understanding new systems, and adapting to a different culture—foster resilience, independence, and self-confidence.
- Career Opportunities: Whether you’re seeking a new job, advancing in your field, or exploring a passion project, moving abroad can open doors to exciting career paths you may not have considered in your home country.
- Social Network: Building a new social network is one of the most rewarding aspects of life abroad. You’ll meet friends from all walks of life, creating connections that enrich your journey and expand your worldview.
- Language Skills: Immersing yourself in a new language is both challenging and rewarding. As you learn to communicate in your new country, you’ll gain valuable skills and a deeper appreciation for the local culture.
- Cultural Immersion: From tasting new foods to participating in local festivals, living in a new country allows you to fully immerse yourself in its unique culture and traditions.
- Travel Opportunities: With a new home base, you’ll find it easier to explore neighboring countries and regions, turning weekend getaways into unforgettable adventures.
- Lifestyle Changes: Many people find that moving abroad brings a lower cost of living, better weather, or a more relaxed pace of life. These changes can help you reassess your priorities and create a more balanced, fulfilling lifestyle.
- Increased Flexibility: Adapting to life in a new country requires flexibility and a willingness to embrace the unknown. These qualities will serve you well, not just abroad, but in every aspect of your life.
As you move forward on this journey, remember that living abroad is a transformative experience. The challenges you face will help you grow, and the friendships and memories you make will last a lifetime.
The Freedom to Reinvent Yourself in a New Culture 9 Ways Your Life Will Change
Being a ‘foreigner’ allows you to be different – your new society doesn’t expect you to be exactly like them – this is where opportunity lies for re-invention. As a foreigner, you also have more flexibility in how you present yourself and live your life, adapting to new norms and possibilities.
This reinvention can lead to less stress and a more fulfilling lifestyle.
OVERCOMING LIMITING BELIEFS
I’ve always had cats before, but now I have a dog. This is Honey!
I’ve always had cats before, but now I have a dog. This is Honey!
Trying out a different way to dress, starting a new hobby, and challenging outdated values are all good ways to realize your full potential. Exploring the city and its neighborhoods can also help you overcome limiting beliefs and open up new possibilities. By being open and curious, developing different interests, and seeing new friendships blossom, you’ll become more aware of your true nature.
BROADENING YOUR MIND THROUGH SELF-DISCOVERY
Embarking on life in a different country is a journey of self-discovery, and broadens the mind. There are growing opportunities for self-discovery and personal growth that come with adapting to a new environment and culture. It will also teach you patience, resilience, and resourcefulness!
LAUNCHING MADAME HALL: A NEW VENTURE IN INDIA
Firstly, the move to another country requires funds, and I began my Madame Hall shop on Etsy when I relocated to India. Careful planning was needed to decide how much to spend on the new venture and daily living expenses. There has been so much to learn!
DISCOVERING NEW CREATIVE OUTLETS
Just recently, I became aware I needed another outlet for my creativity. Seeing a chance Instagram post introduced me to Zeel, a very talented potter and young Bhuj artisan.
EMBRACING SPIRITUAL VALUES FOR CULTURAL INSIGHT
Embracing the spiritual values of your new country gives an insightful understanding of the culture. In a country like India, where religion plays a huge part in daily life, an understanding of the belief system is most insightful.
CREATING A UNIQUE LIVING SPACE
Home decorating is fun wherever you live, and starting afresh in a new country is no exception. Activities like grocery shopping at local markets help you settle into your new living space and quickly adapt to daily routines. New or new-to-you furniture, textiles, and homewares made by local artisans, vintage finds, and treasures you’ve brought with you, will create an eclectic mix that expresses your unique personality.
EXPLORING LOCAL CUISINE
You haven’t had chai until you’ve had it handmade in India.
I’ve become confident at cooking Indian food while in Bhuj. My colleague Dipu is an avid cook and always is interested to talk about his most recent culinary delights and share recipes.
CARING FOR ANIMALS IN A NEW ENVIRONMENT
During my life in India, my lifelong love of animals has not changed. I’d always had cats, but in Australia, I didn’t know any dogs well. This has completely changed now. Pets can quickly become like family, offering comfort and companionship, especially when adjusting to life in a new country.
FINDING SUPPORT IN NEW SURROUNDINGS
You’ll notice a common thread through my journey of self-discovery. There are always people around willing to help and guide you! Finding support networks is especially important when settling into a new city, as different cities offer unique support systems and opportunities to connect with others.
Navigating the Practicalities: Visa Process and Paperwork
Before you can fully embrace your new life in a different country, it’s important to tackle the practical side of moving abroad—starting with the visa process and paperwork. Every country has its own set of rules and requirements, so being prepared is key to a smooth transition.
Understanding the Visa Process
The visa process can feel overwhelming at first, but a little research goes a long way. Depending on your destination and your plans, you may need to apply for a tourist visa, a temporary visa, a residence visa, a retirement visa, or a work visa. Each type of visa comes with its own eligibility criteria, documentation, and timelines, so it’s essential to understand what’s required for your specific situation.
If you’re planning a short stay, a tourist visa might be sufficient. For those looking to settle down, a residence visa or even permanent residence may be the goal. Some countries offer retirement visas for those seeking a peaceful new chapter, while others require a work visa if you have a job offer or plan to work remotely. Take the time to research the visa process for your chosen country, gather the necessary paperwork, and don’t hesitate to seek advice from others who have made the move.
By staying organized and proactive, you’ll be well on your way to securing the right visa and starting your new life abroad with confidence.
Bridging Cultures: Learning the Local Language
One of the most rewarding—and sometimes challenging—aspects of moving to a new country is learning the local language. While many countries have English-speaking communities, making the effort to learn the local language will enrich your experience and help you feel more at home.
Here are a few tips to help you get started:
- Take a Class: Enroll in a language course or hire a private tutor to build a strong foundation.
- Practice with Locals: Don’t be shy—practice speaking with locals whenever you can, whether it’s at the market, a café, or through online language exchange programs.
- Use Online Resources: Take advantage of language learning apps, YouTube channels, and other online resources to supplement your studies and practice on the go.
- Immerse Yourself: Watch local TV shows and movies, listen to music, and read newspapers or books in your new language. The more you immerse yourself, the faster you’ll learn.
Learning the local language is a powerful way to connect with your new community, navigate daily life, and truly appreciate the culture of your new country. Embrace the challenge, and you’ll find yourself growing in confidence and understanding every day.
Building a Support Network
Starting over in a new country can feel daunting, especially when you’re leaving behind your established social network. One of the best ways to ease the transition and build a new life abroad is by connecting with expat groups and communities.
Here’s how you can find your tribe:
- Join Facebook Groups and Online Forums: Search for expat groups in your destination country. These online communities are a great place to ask questions, share experiences, and make new friends.
- Attend Expat Events and Meetups: Look for social gatherings, cultural events, and networking meetings where you can meet other expats and locals alike.
- Find Clubs and Organizations: Whether you’re interested in sports, books, volunteering, or other hobbies, there are often expat clubs and organizations that align with your interests.
- Reach Out to Friends and Acquaintances: If you know someone who has already made the move, don’t hesitate to ask for advice or introductions. Personal connections can make all the difference.
Building a support network of like-minded individuals who understand the joys and challenges of living abroad will help you navigate your new life with confidence. With the right social network, you’ll find that the transition to your new country is not only easier, but also filled with opportunities for friendship, growth, and adventure.
\Embracing Change and Taking the Plunge
Embarking on life in a different country is a journey of self-discovery. It’s scary, but remember ‘Fortune favors the brave.’ You’ll be amazed how many people, friends, acquaintances, and complete strangers are only too happy to help you when difficulties arise.
If you too have a dream to change your life, get started, and make a plan and do it! If you are considering a move abroad, start researching your options and explore what it truly means to live abroad.
Have you be contemplating a large change after 50 that would benefit your life? What’s been holding you back? Please let share with us in the comments.
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Lisa Hall is an Australian born fashion designer, residing in Bhuj, India since 2012. Her long career creating costumes for the Australian theatre and film industry has influenced the dramatic flair she now brings to her exclusive Madame Hall collection.Lisa is wearing her own Madame Hall designs. Available at Madame Hall Etsy Shop.
Photographed in Bhuj by Ritish Shah – Instagram @ritishshah
Zeel at Studio Tanjun – Instagram @studio_tanjun
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Thank you for your note. Have a lovely day. Warmly, Honey
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Thank you for your kind comment. Warmly, Honey