Are you naturally lucky or do you make your own luck? Some people swear by lucky charms like a special necklace, a rabbit’s foot, a coin tucked away in a wallet. I, too, carry my own little tokens of luck. Around my neck, I wear a delicate gold charm with with symbols of fortune: a four-leaf clover, an elephant, a horseshoe, an evil eye, a heart, and even the number 13. But of all my lucky pieces, my red Kabbalah string is the one I hold most dear.

Do I believe in luck? Well, sometimes. I do think fate occasionally taps us on the shoulder, offering us a serendipitous opportunity. But in my heart, I know that 99% of the time, you have to make your own luck. Luck isn’t something that simply appears. It’s something we cultivate, invite in, and act upon.

That’s what I want to explore today. Today, I want to talk about the what, why, and how of making your own luck in health, love, travel, or life itself.

Luck Comes from Action, Not Objects

My lucky charms bring me comfort. They remind me to stay open to life’s possibilities. But they do not create my fortune– I do. And dear reader, so do you.

Luck isn’t just about being in the right place at the right time; it’s about recognizing an opportunity when it presents itself and having the courage to act. It’s about keeping our eyes, ears, and minds open to the wisdom of others, whether it comes from a trusted friend, an article we read, or even a conversation overheard in passing.

If we listen, if we stay aware, we invite luck into our lives. But luck also favors the bold. The ones who take risks, step outside their comfort zones, and believe in their own power to shape their future. It’s in the effort, the persistence, and the willingness to try again when things don’t go as planned.

So yes, keep your lucky charms close. Let them be a reminder, not of the luck you wait for, but of the luck you create. Because the truth is, the luckiest among us aren’t just fortunate… they are fearless.

Make Your Own Luck with Your Health

When it comes to health, luck isn’t about superstition, it’s about being proactive. We all know the importance of yearly mammograms, full-body skin checks, annual physicals, and routine screenings. But beyond the basics, having the right doctor, the right second opinion, or simply hearing the right piece of advice at the right time can make all the difference.

Your life is in your hands. Be curious. Ask questions. Seek the best care. That’s how you make your own luck when it comes to your well-being. It’s about taking charge, doing the research, advocating for yourself, and not settling when something doesn’t feel right.

Think of the women who have caught a diagnosis early because they insisted on a second test. The ones who found life-changing treatments because they sought out a specialist. Or the ones who simply listened when a friend said, “Get that checked.” These moments aren’t just coincidence; they are the result of awareness, action, and the refusal to leave health to chance.

So don’t wait for luck to find you, make your own luck by staying informed, trusting your instincts, and taking the steps that lead to a long, healthy life.

Make Your Own Luck with Love

For those of you who are widowed, divorced, or never married, let me be clear: YOU are your own good luck charm. Love isn’t a game of chance; it’s about positioning yourself to welcome it into your life.

Don’t turn down a date just because it doesn’t seem promising. You never know who you might meet along the way– a new friend, an unexpected connection, or even someone who opens a door to an opportunity you never considered. Stay engaged with life! Say yes to new experiences, be open to conversations, and most importantly, be a good picker. A healthy, fulfilling relationship isn’t found by accident; it’s built with intention, discernment, and patience.

If you want love, set the stage for it. Keep your heart open but your standards high. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, step outside your comfort zone, and most of all, believe that love is still meant for you. The truth is, you make your own luck in love by showing up, by staying hopeful, and by knowing that the best chapters of your story may still be unwritten.

Make Your Own Luck with Travel

A dream vacation isn’t left to chance. The perfect trip isn’t the result of luck. It’s the result of planning, curiosity, and knowing how to make your own luck when it comes to travel.

Relying on a random travel agent behind a computer won’t guarantee you an unforgettable experience. Instead, seek advice from well-traveled friends, ask trusted acquaintances for recommendations, and do your own research. The best restaurant, the most charming boutique hotel, or the hidden gem of an excursion rarely come from a generic itinerary. They come from those who have been there, explored, and discovered something worth sharing.

My Southern friend, Norma Jean, taught me a simple trick: always ask the hotel clerk for “a room with a view.” You’d be amazed how often it works. A little confidence, a warm smile, and a polite request can often turn a standard stay into something truly special.

We are never too old to ask, never too old to learn. Whether it’s negotiating an upgrade, finding the best local spots, or stepping outside your comfort zone to try something new, travel rewards those who take an active role in shaping their experiences. That is how we make our own travel luck– by preparing, by asking, and by embracing every adventure with an open heart and mind.

Tips on How to Make Your Own Luck

1. Trust Your Intuition. Your gut feeling is often more reliable than overthinking.
2. Put Yourself Out There. Opportunities don’t come to those who sit still.
3. Prioritize Relationships. A rich life is built on meaningful connections.
4. Stay Open-Minded. Be willing to try new things– you never know where they’ll lead.
5. Listen & Learn. Wisdom comes from those around you– if you’re paying attention.
6. Believe in Yourself. Confidence attracts opportunities.
7. Be Curious. The world belongs to those who seek knowledge.
8. Take Care of Your Health. A strong body and mind will carry you far.
9. Maintain a Positive Outlook. Optimistic people invite good fortune.
10. Practice Gratitude. A lucky woman is a grateful woman.

The Truth About Luck

I will continue to wear my red Kabbalah string and my gold charm. They bring me comfort, just as crossing our fingers or whispering a small prayer brings us comfort. But real luck? That comes from how we live our lives.

We all get a chance to be lucky, dear readers. But luck is not something we wait for. It’s something we create. So, wear your lucky pieces if they bring you joy, but remember…

The real magic lies in how you live each day.