Darling, if you’ve been dreaming of exploring a destination that will ignite your sense of wanderlust, this guide is for you! Many women over 50 are rediscovering the world, and with the right approach, travel can be truly life-changing. For me, travel is a way to connect with different cultures and with myself. I’m thrilled to introduce Stacey Birch, an adventurous spirit who knows Tulum inside and out. Stacey’s story of moving to Tulum and the transformation that followed is truly inspiring. Today, she’s sharing her insider tips and favorite experiences for those of us seeking adventure, relaxation, and a bit of magic in our travels. Enjoy! -Honey

When the opportunity presented itself to write an insider’s guide to this dreamy destination, I remember thinking ‘gosh, what timing…’ I’d just recently run away from said beach town. Tulum, Mexico, the place that is absolute paradise for so many, had lost its lustre for me.

My Tulum Story

Hi! I’m Stacey and 4 years ago, I moved to Tulum. I’d just turned 50, and I was looking for something more. My kid no longer needed me, my job I no longer wanted, and I’d just lost my 18-year-old yorkie. (And I’d also said goodbye to a few other things, like my waistline, my will to live, anything perky, and my segggs drive).

The adventures of Tulum along with dog rescue were exactly what I needed, until they weren’t.

Four years were spent galivanting through this jungle escape, being blessed, having access to so much, as my work had me partnering with realtors, photographers, property managers, and the like. The day-to-day of boots-on-the-ground dog rescue kicked my booty though. I’d become an integral part of Help Tulum Dogs. And I was burnt the heck out, or I think the correct term for it is called ‘compassion fatigue.’

Suddenly this beach town felt stale.

Welp, how does that saying go, “you don’t know what ya got till it’s gone?!”

After I ran off and spent 7 months in the mountains of Chiapas, Mexico, suddenly all I could think of was Tulum, my home. I couldn’t wait to get back to the beach, the food, the vibe, the cenotes, the jungle, and the people. I made my way back to Tulum right before writing this article, and I’m excited to share my love of this area with you.

My Favorite Things in Tulum

So, after that brief summary as to why I’m your gal for all things Tulum, let’s dive into a few of my favorite things in one of the most gorgeous places in the world.

Where to Stay in Tulum: The Best Places for Every Budget and Experience

OK, so the number one thing I am asked is, “Where should I stay?!”

And to be honest that’s a tough one, because usually I don’t know your budget, etc. And in Tulum, the budget for lodging varies greatly, from $1200/night for some beachfront stays to $50/night for a cute condo. I do know a perfect visit for me would be to mix it up! Stay for part of your visit on the beach in the hotel zone and the other in town or the jungle.

• Be Tulum is a beachfront property that’s absolute perfection.
• Jungle Luxe is an amazing property management company run by a fellow midlife gal doing her thing here. She has a fabulous variety of stunning properties.
• I also love Delek Tulum on the beach.

For Airbnbs and the best locations, keep in mind that Tulum is very spread out. Accessing the beach is a bit of a trek, and transportation is needed.

• Aldea Zama is the area you want to be in if paved roads are your jam.
• La Veleta is at the edge of town and has more of a jungle vibe (and where I currently reside). To be in the heart of this area and all its cafes and restaurants, I’d recommend staying close to Calle 7.

Cafes and Restaurants in Tulum: The Top Spots

Now, let me tell you more about the incredible cafes and restaurants in Tulum. Whether you’re looking for the perfect coffee spot or a memorable dining experience, here’s a list of some local favorites in no particular order:

Cafes: The Best Coffee Spots in Tulum to Kickstart Your Day

• Otti – A cozy little spot offering both coffee and cacao drinks, perfect for starting your morning or taking a mid-day break. The atmosphere is relaxed, and the staff is incredibly friendly, making it an ideal place to unwind.
• Ki’bok – This family-run cafe is known for its fabulous coffee. The welcoming atmosphere and locally sourced beans make it a great place to enjoy a cup of freshly brewed coffee while soaking in the laid-back Tulum vibe.
• Mera Tulum – Pet-friendly and perfect if you want to get some work done. With plenty of seating options and a calm ambiance, this cafe is a favorite for those who need to catch up on emails or simply enjoy a leisurely cup of coffee with their furry friend by their side.
• Cara Feliz – More than just a cafe, Cara Feliz is also a book lover’s haven. With a little garden area, it’s an excellent place to grab a book, enjoy some coffee, and relax in a peaceful environment.
• Nimeno – If you have a sweet tooth, Nimeno is the place to be. This bakery and coffee shop offers delicious pastries and an excellent coffee selection, making it a popular stop for breakfast or an afternoon treat.

Restaurants in Tulum: Top Places for a Memorable Dining Experience

• Cetli – Located on the outskirts of town, Cetli is an absolute must for anyone looking for authentic Mexican cuisine. The atmosphere is intimate, and the dishes are prepared with fresh, local ingredients, offering a true taste of traditional flavors.
• Hartwood – A foodie’s heaven, Hartwood is known for its ever-changing menu that focuses on sustainable, locally sourced ingredients. It’s one of Tulum’s most popular spots, so reservations are a good idea if you want to experience its unique and mouthwatering dishes.
• Negro Huitlacoxe – You absolutely must try the corn ribs here. The restaurant offers a fusion of flavors that highlight the richness of Mexican cuisine in a modern setting, making it a favorite for both locals and tourists.
• Taqueria Honorio – This is the place to go for authentic cochinita tacos. The flavors are incredible, and it’s an affordable and delicious way to experience a local favorite. Get there early, as it tends to sell out by lunchtime.
• Ilios – For a Greek experience right on the beach, Ilios offers not only amazing food but also a fun atmosphere with plate smashing and dancing. It’s perfect for a night out with friends or family.
• Asian Bodega – This spot is just fabulous. The fusion of Asian flavors with a Mexican twist is simply delightful, and the casual yet chic setting makes it a great option for a relaxed dinner.
• La Barracuda – If you’re in the mood for seafood, La Barracuda is the place to go. Their whole fried fish and ceviche are highlights, served in a laid-back atmosphere that embodies the Tulum spirit.
• Wild – A unique beach dining experience, Wild offers a menu filled with fresh, creative dishes. The ambiance is chic, and the setting right on the beach makes it perfect for a special night out.
• La Negra Tomasa – Known for its great seafood, La Negra Tomasa delivers quality dishes in a relaxed environment. The combination of fresh ingredients and friendly service makes it a favorite among locals.
• El Sudaca – This Argentinian restaurant is set in a beautiful garden, offering an enchanting setting along with mouthwatering dishes. The grilled meats are exceptional, and the overall vibe is perfect for a romantic evening.

Tulum Beach Clubs (Without the “ootz-ootz” Music)

For those who prefer beach clubs that play music with actual lyrics instead of just electronic beats, here are some great spots:

• Cinco – Located on the Jaguar Park (aka ruins) side, Cinco is super chill and perfect if you want to enjoy a relaxing beach day without the loud, repetitive beats. Highly recommend for a more laid-back vibe.
• Delek – Pet-friendly, no minimum spend, and my personal favorite. It’s a wonderful place to enjoy the beach with a more relaxed and inviting atmosphere, plus you can bring your furry friends along.
• Amansala – A great spot for the perfect beach day. The vibe here is relaxed, and the setting is beautiful, making it an ideal choice for those looking to unwind by the sea.
• Gitano Beach – If you’re looking for a mix of snazzy and a little party, Gitano Beach is the place to be.
• Ziggys – An institution in Tulum, Ziggys is a classic choice for a day at the beach. With good food, drinks, and excellent service, it’s a great spot to spend an afternoon.
• Ultimo Maya – If you want to escape it all, head down to the Sian Kaan and enjoy the peaceful, unspoiled beach at Ultimo Maya. It’s the perfect getaway from the more crowded spots.

Things to Do in Tulum

Now that our bellies are full, it’s time to explore all the incredible activities that Tulum has to offer. Whether you’re seeking adventure, relaxation, or cultural experiences, Tulum truly has something for everyone. From ancient ruins and cenotes to vibrant local events, there’s always something exciting happening in this paradise. Let’s dive into the must-do activities that will make your trip unforgettable.

Here are a few must-do’s for your next Tulum vacation:

• Tulum Ruins – A must-see, but the earlier the better, as it gets hot and there is zero shade. You can also skip the crowds and view the ruins from the ocean by booking a snorkeling trip from Jaguar Park.
• Sian Kaan – Take the guided tour through this stunning biosphere reserve, which is filled with lush mangroves, exotic wildlife, and pristine natural beauty. Trust me, the guided experience provides incredible insights into the history and ecosystem, making it a truly memorable adventure.
• Muyil River Float – You go to the most stunning lagoon and float down a lazy river.
• Cenotes – Dos Ojos Cenote Park is a spectacular spot with multiple cenotes to explore, offering opportunities for snorkeling, diving, and swimming in crystal-clear waters surrounded by stunning rock formations. The interconnected caves and rich underwater ecosystem make it an incredible experience for nature lovers. Atik Tulum is another must-visit, featuring beautiful cenotes where you can take a refreshing dip and enjoy the tranquility of these natural wonders. Seriously, LOOK:
  

   

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• Salsa Night – Every Tuesday night there is salsa dancing at Palma Central food truck park. It’s so much fun, and the free classes start at 7 pm.
• Neek Tulum – A stunning lagoon that will have you swearing you’re in the Maldives, with its crystal-clear waters and serene setting. It’s the perfect place to relax, take in the breathtaking surroundings, and enjoy some much-needed tranquility. Make sure to book your tables or loungers through their Instagram page for an unforgettable day.
• For all things healing and yoga, check out Holistika.

Special Occasions: Celebrating Life’s Big Moments in Tulum

If you’re coming here for a celebration or special occasion and would like a hand planning festivities, The Beach Planner is your gal. How epic is this 60th birthday?!

Tulum is a place full of contrasts—natural beauty, modern comforts, and traditional culture all come together to create an experience that’s truly rejuvenating and inspiring. Whether you want to chill out, go on an adventure, or just find some time to reconnect with yourself, Tulum has endless possibilities, especially for us gals over 50. Traveling here can be a real game-changer—it pushes you to step out of your comfort zone, embrace something new, and celebrate every moment, big or small. Whether you’re coming on your own or with your favorite people, Tulum is perfect for creating unforgettable memories together. So grab your bags, bring your spirit of adventure, and come see the magic Tulum has in store for you!

And one last thing, and it’s a doozie ~ Follow me, @hotflashesandboardingpasses, and stay tuned for my upcoming Tulum Retreat!

Stacey Birch helps midlife women with their own midlife remixes by getting them grooving on Instagram.  She has a community that helps you to be seen, supported and celebrated on IG. Join the Grown Gals Gang by signing up on her website  and to find out about her upcoming Mexico retreats, give her a follow on Instagram.